What do I value in a women besides the obvious physical beauty? I admire someone who has a high Emotional Intelligence, someone who I can look at and be amazed by how well they are with people. They bring out the best in people. They must be confident in some skill or trait of theirs such as career, conservation, politics, I must be able to learn from them. They must also be at least somewhat physically active and care about their lifestyle. Getting to bed at a certain time, running would be great. Someone who is also able to get me to loosen up at times when I am having trouble with it and will not succumb to my times of negativity when I take myself too seriously. Must be someone who enjoys new experiences and can travel or live in another country.
To attract this type of women I have a lot of personal growth to undertake. In thinking about some goals for this summer, I should be able to play at least 10 songs on the Uke, speak one or two languages mediocre, continue being fit, active in community work. There seems to be a disconnect as I only think of doing these things once I have the freedom of entrepreneurship but I don't have to wait. I can do the 9-5 intern thing and include these as part of who I am as well. It is also these experiences that will help me to find something that needs to be fixed. I must also focus in on my love for people and understanding them. These should all be included in my decisions. I must also constantly check in with my intentions and if I am doing something because I want to or because of social pressures. This will be the summer doing things that I find intention in. I will make my decisions. If I don't know why I am doing something than I will not do it, period.
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